When you experience something you deem "hard" or perhaps something others may deem a shock, tragedy, rough, difficult, a tough go of it, maybe you've seen a rough patch... you know what I mean. It could be personal, professional, something self-imposed, something you didn't anticipate, something you saw coming, any way you look at it - there's a beginning, middle and end to it. It's not always hard, and the beginning feels different than the...