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Month: January 2019

BeautifulClarityLife

Lean into love

January 30, 2019

While we're on the subject of feelings (I mean, when aren't we?) I want to dive into my love for my wide variety of loving friends. They are scattered around the globe, and I feel like the ones I collect, seem to stay delicately tucked into pockets of my life and poke their heads out when I need them most. They are quite possibly the most treasured peices of my heart. Never has there ever been a deeper love in this universe than the love I have...

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ArtBeautifulClarity

When what you need hurts others

January 29, 2019

Along the journey of life, there is bound to be a time in your life which your path will diverge from one that you may have been sharing with someone. Perhaps that path had been well worn, traveled and as you look back over your shoulder you see many happy memories. However, glancing ahead, your paths begin to part and the footsteps now find their own beat instead of landing to the same time. It's sad, and can sometimes feel like you are breaking,...

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ClarityFightyLifeSassyStupid

Loving yourself first.

January 28, 2019

If there's something that's become increasingly more obvious to me as I've become older and more mature is that to deal with life's challenges and be a better more whole person is that we have to heal ourselves and learn to love ourselves first, before we can be loved and be of true use to the world. Not to say we can't be loved and be useful to others without it - but I've come to a certain understanding slowly over the last few years. I really...

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BeautifulClarityFightyKidsLifeStupid

When you need others.

January 16, 2019

Asking for help isn't inherently a bad thing. We're often told that to be strong, we have to do it ourselves. To be brave, we can do it alone. To be stoic, to have a stiff upper lip, that we should and can tough it out. This isn't a thing that just men have to deal with, though they have it MUCH worse than women do. They have to do it without showing emotion. Women are at least given a pass that they have to do it, but people will wait if...

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ClarityFightyGamesLifeMusicSassy

On Being Sexy.

January 14, 2019

It took less than a day. I had been streaming on Twitch for less than 24 hours. One comment in my public channel while playing Sims4, and then a direct message. One said, "What would you do for $1?" the other told me, "God, you are so sexy." Being told you are sexy will most likely bring about specific emotions in a person. Which emotions may depend on a few things; the person delivering the message, the context,...

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